We live in a world where limitations are not only accepted, but also encouraged. As soon as we’re born, we are taught who we can be and who we can’t be. We are conditioned to believe that we are destined to go through life, not to create it.
That’s why people make the choice to live in grounded “realism,” and never even attempt to generate new circumstances in life.
Have you ever heard someone say this to you? Even if the person telling you to “get real” means well, this statement is bad advice. It’s what you don’t think is possible that keeps you for the reality you actually want.
The truth is: “realism” holds you back. If a dream seems silly, out of reach, or undeserved, it can never manifest into your reality.
Then the real pain of reality sets in: you may end up believing that:
- You aren’t good enough to have the life you want.
- You aren’t worthy enough to create your reality—including how much you get paid, where you live, your career, anything you want in life.
- You aren’t smart enough to create an abundant and happy life.
- You don’t deserve your true ambitions.
As we mature into adults, the problem of limitations becomes more severe. We give up on our dreams. We settle for less than what we want. Because we’re taught to think that failure is a bad thing, we take the road of safety and security.
And taking the “safe” path keeps you from the true freedom you desire in your life. It’s not a wise decision to be realistic.
You were born a dreamer and that power was taken away. But you can be a dreamer once again! That is my goal with you. You can bend reality… I can teach you how!